Special Name

[I'm blogging this as preparation for doing the Children's Story at church this weekend.]

Have you ever thought very much about your name? Do you know where your name came from? My names came from my two Dutch grandmothers: Rena, and Maria. But no one ever called me Rena Maria, because I was born with red hair and my dad called me Ginger--which means "red"--even though that name wasn't on my birth certificate or my school records or my passport. My name has been Ginger ever since. And I like red. A lot.

For a long, long time I didn't meet anyone else with a name like mine, a name that means "Red." But now there are some right here in this church!

Many years ago, when I was a little girl and we were on vacation in California, my mom took a job to earn some extra money. There was a doctor's office in Hollywood that needed a doctor for a while, and they signed my mom up to treat patients there. I don't remember how long she worked at that office, because my brother and I weren't paying much attention. We were busy sitting in Grandma's back room watching episodes of Gilligan's Island.

So my mom worked in this office and saw a lot of people right here in America who were poor and sick and needed help. And she saw some that were really different from the people she usually treated in her doctor's office. Some were rich, or getting rich. "There are some people with really strange names," she told us.

"What really strange names do they have?" we asked Mama.

"Well, a celebrity brought his kids in," she told us, "and the little girl's name was Moon Unit."

"Moon Unit!" we exclaimed.

"Yes," she said. "And another actor called her kid Bus Stop."

"What???" we exclaimed.  "Why?"

"That's what I was wondering," Mama said. "Even if you shorten them to nicknames, Moon and Bus aren't very great names. I think the kids at school will tease them."

We laughed and laughed about those names: Moon Unit... and Bus Stop.  And now I know that Moon Unit is a fairly well-known actress, musician and author. People call her "Moon."  She named her daughter "Mathilda."

I've known some other children with different names. I taught Morning Star and Field Stream in the Philippines. And I met Blessed in Africa. He's a good pianist.

A long, long time ago, way before Blessed and Morning Star and Field Stream and Moon Unit were born--and even before I was born--an angel came to Joseph and said, "You are to get married to Mary, because she is going to have a baby boy who is God's Son, and you are to call him 'Jesus.'

There are some names that sound a little bit like "Jesus," --like Joshua and Josiah--but I don't see anyone else named "Jesus" in the Bible before Jesus was born on this earth.

What does the name "Jesus" mean?  It means "God rescues," or "God saves."

Jesus showed us that God will rescue us from our sin and our trouble. He was God's promise, and He was God, keeping His promise to us.

He came to rescue me. And he rescues you, too. And that ... means his name--Jesus--is good news!

Facing the Unexpected

I haven't blogged for a while. That is due in part to the busy-ness of the season, and due in part to a recent and unexpected diagnosis for a very dear family member. I'm now processing the implications of this, reading up on the disease, and helping with the "taxi service" duties. The latter--spending more time with a loved one--is a pleasure. Work has been allowed to take too much of my time; this is a reminder of how precious time is, and how time should be spent on those who are precious to us.

Fifty

Well, the day of celebration was momentous and memorable! It started with a card and gift from Husband when I arrived at the breakfast table. There were a dozen gorgeous red roses from Husband at the office, and a bunch of purple and mylar balloons from my administrative assistant, and "fifty" confetti decorating my committee table.

And then there were cards ... oh my, the cards!  A big basket of them, full of cards from colleagues.  I figured that by the time all was said and done, well over a hundred people had birthday'd me with cards, e-mails, and dropping by to greet me during the day. (Add to that several hundred greetings on Facebook from people I've known around the world over the years, and it felt like a very special day.)

It was all a product of the scheming of my administrative assistant, Claudia, and my husband. Here I am with Claudia, who is the most excellent administrative assistant in the world. And no, you can't have her. She's also my friend, and we are pretty much agreed that where I go in this life, she goes!

Here's another look at that cake, which was really beautiful.

I had seen on my schedule a two-hour meeting with my associate about accreditation. I'd thought to myself, "That's suspicious. There's no way Scott and I can discuss accreditation for two hours!" But one knows not to ask about these things when it's one's special day.

Sure enough, at 1:00 the cake showed up and people began to arrive, creating a steady stream for the next two hours of well-wishers. Most of them were older than I, so I razzed them for advice regarding life after fifty. It was a delightfully fun, social time, and so enjoyable to be talking about non-work things with people that I'm usually all-business with.

From the last committee--and yes, I did work for about five hours out of the day--I joined Husband and my parents for a dinner in the Marcus Whitman Hotel restaurant downtown.

The Marcus Whitman is the grand old dame of hotels in our part of the state. There's a stateliness to her, and the staff there make sure the food is good and the atmosphere genteel.  I really enjoy it.

As we walked into the lobby we saw that there was a silent auction and gingerbread house showing underway.  The place was even more festive and twinkly for the time of year.

It was the loveliest birthday ever. Seriously. It could not be topped. I decided that while I will have more birthdays, Lord willing, there is no need for more big celebrations. I think I shall settle down to my fifties now and enjoy them.

There are good things to making a fuss about a rite of passage. This one was just right.

The Last Day of the Forties

Me, on the last day of 49

[Warning: Self-focused reflective post ahead.]

This is my last morning of being in my forties. It's a very odd feeling. I've been thinking about tomorrow's birthday for quite some time, and I'm not used to the idea yet. I have a feeling I won't get used to it, at least for a few years. In the decades leading up to fifty, one doesn't spend much time imagining what it might be like to become that age. My own parents turned fifty when I was away at boarding school; other than wishing them the usual birthday greetings, it was a non-event. So I don't quite know how to do this.

As Husband and I discussed the impending milestone yesterday, he commented that fifty is harder than forty because you can imagine yourself being twice as old as forty, but it's much harder to imagine doubling your age at fifty. You have to recognize by then that you've probably lived more than half your life. Somewhere along the way you peaked your journey upward to halfway without knowing it.

Fifty is beyond what you can stretch "young" to mean. Fifty is just fifteen short years from the traditional retirement age, although plenty of people are working past sixty-five now. Fifty is where you have to either fight your age in your body or accept it. I've always promised myself I'd accept it graciously--I mean the gray hair, the wrinkles, the saggy-ness. I find that at almost-fifty it's more important to me to live healthfully, so I won't settle for physical decline just yet. Resistance to entropy is the name of the game, and that takes some strategic effort. More exercise, better nutrition, looking out for my own emotional health--I'm being better to myself as I approach fifty.

I once thought I'd be spiritually settled by fifty. But I'm not. I still have questions, doubts still cross my mind, and I still think about taking a vacation from religion the way it's been organized around me all my life. I dream of living more simply, meaningfully and dependently with God, without all the traditions and arguments around me. I've had some surprising spiritual realizations in ramping up to fifty, and I'm still processing them. They are too personal to talk about yet, but they feel like God's special birthday gift to me. My spiritual life gets more precious and personal as time passes. Whether that can be done within my religious community is something I'm on a journey to discover, because I love my religious community. Warts and all, they are some of the finest, most interesting, fully human people on the face of this planet. They are my family. You can leave your family but you can never totally shuck them off. So far I see little point in dragging them around like a carcass behind me. They are still alive.

On this last day before fifty, I will do the things I usually do. I will meet with an accreditation team that has come on campus to evaluate one of our programs. I will meet with faculty in their follow-up appointments to promotion decisions. I will meet with the leadership team of the area I oversee for our weekly confab. I will talk with a chair about reconfiguring a couple of his academic programs. I will tour some problem spots on campus with our master planning committee, and I will welcome the graduate students at their annual Christmas reception. This has been the stuff of my forties.

My twenties were spent primarily in preparation for, and my first six years of teaching. My thirties were spent primarily as a college professor. My forties have been spent as a college administrator. I'm curious about the decade of my fifties. I think there will be some other change in this decade. Or maybe not. In any case, I find myself thankful for the flavor and lessons of each decade so far, and looking forward--not to the age, but the experiences of the decade to come.

And I won't end this without reviewing love life. I am, after all, a woman. I'm glad to have the unsure, unfulfilling dates of my twenties behind me. I loved the independence and security of my single thirties, despite the moments of longing for companionship. The married days, children and grandchildren of my forties have flown by fast and furious, and they have been a blessing beyond anything I've experienced so far. My forties have been full of laughter, love, and a deepening of my ability to be a contributing and committed family member.

And so I pray to live well, in this last day of my forties. And I pray that God will continue to do His good work in me as I peer through the doorway of tomorrow.

Hands On Children's Museum

 My travel guru is a website called TripAdvisor.com.  I have used the site many, many times to find good, affordable lodging and things to do when I'm in a new town. While in Olympia last week, I looked up "things to do," and found that the #2 rated activity was a visit to the Hands On Children's Museum, right near the capitol building. Since the first ranked activity was walking a boardwalk at a wildlife refuge, and since it was raining, we went for Activity #2.

The Hands On Children's Museum was the perfect place for spending a rainy afternoon with Granddaughter #2.There were a number of rooms with various tactile discovery activities for parents, grandparents and even great-grandparents to enjoy with their little descendants.

As we went started by hanging up our coats, I was amused to see the above sight over the coat hanger rail. This museum knows how to prepare for little kids!

This "sand" was very fine, slightly tacky, and clumped together very nicely.  I would love to have a sandbox with that kind of sand at home. It just feels fun to play with.

In the most complicated gadget corner, you can find just the sort of thing that would intrigue a mechanical engineer and his family. And that's who we were there with, so some quality time was spent figuring it out.

The point is to get these colored balls to go up through the tubes.

Holding the red button down, I believe, is what eventually makes it happen.

Also in that corner are some pipe configurations to be arranged for the balls to go through. You can end up with quite a nice Rube Goldberg setup, if you put it together well.  Fun for everyone!

The museum folk have considerately provided many nice places for kids to rest, or for the old folks to sit for a while as the kids discover and play.

They also provide special exhibits, like this spot to pet the cavies, which are the largest rodent that exists, if I understood the museum personnel correctly.

And there are places to get important work done, like scooping corn kernels into plastic ice cube trays or funnels. They have thought of everything at this museum. There was nothing that would mess up the clothes, and precautions taken (like the deep bin, in this case) to keep from getting little bits all over the floor.

Up at the front of the museum is a children's theater, where everything is make-believe.

What a lovely ticket-seller they had there!

I'm not sure if kids really get the idea that this is a microphone; perhaps the older ones do. The dress-up bin of costumes is chock full of wardrobe options.  And there's a "sound board" with lots of options that allow you to push buttons bringing forth the sound effects of thunder, clapping, etc. We watched a couple of boys of about 10 years of age having a great time onstage, improvising a story as they went.

Over in the science section you can do rubbings of animal etchings and look at big slides under the microscope to observe little tiny things.

And you can climb up in a treehouse and look out at family members waiting outside  Even petite mommies fit in there.

Over in another make-believe section, there's a lot more to be done.  You can "plant" and harvest crops of nutritious plastic vegetables and fruit...

...or go grocery shopping and check out at a little plastic till.

Over in an adjacent area, you can build and oversee a train system on a huge table, or be a medical person or patient in a clinic, or do crafty things. By this time, if you've started on the other side of the museum, you might be getting quite tired...

...at which which point it's time for Daddy to pick up the kid, and the family to gather for a photo.  Note that the ages range from 2 to 85, and a good time was had by all!

Granddaughter #2

We spent Thanksgiving break with a number of relatives, as I've mentioned in an earlier post or two. But one of the best treats was getting more acquainted with Granddaughter #2, who came north with her parents to celebrate thankfulness with us. The purpose of this post is to simply give you the opportunity to ooh and aah over her incredible cuteness. Ready?  Here we go!

With her mommy, who holds a special place in my heart, and her Grampa, who holds a very, very special place in my heart and life! It's always such fun to observe three generations together in one place.

 Jenga with Mommy!

Off for a walk with the family on a chilly Olympia morning. Baby doll came along for company.

Love those baby blues!

Hangin' out with her daddy. I can already see in her the studied approach to new things, similar to her parents' analytic gifts.

Say cheese for Oma!  Kinda makes you drool, doesn't it?

Love this little family! Granddaughter #2 is expecting a brother or sister next spring.  Life is going to change!

This little chair has been in the family since the 1950s.

Snuggle with Grampa?  You betcha.

Come on, Oma!  Why so many pictures?  Come read a book.

Grampa and Oma got to hold her hands on a long car ride to visit family friends.

Look!  I got two straws in my drink!

Hangin' with Oma!  Aren't you lucky we don't live where the Grands are? That's all this blog would be about!

Olympia Walk

Husband and I traveled to the capitol of our state for Thanksgiving weekend with extended family. "Extended" is a good descriptor; there were over 40 people crammed into Brother-in-law's house with new little faces to be met and a few friends thrown in for good measure. And, of course, there was feasting a-plenty.

But before all the decadence, Husband and I took a long walk in the morning from our rented lodgings around the downtown area and waterfront at Olympia. So come along with us.

Right around the corner from our rented apartment we passed the community garden, which included assorted vegetables, restful garden decorations, and a little chicken farm.  It was charming.

As long-time readers of this blog will know well, we get very excited when we see a sculpture with which we can interact.  This young girl in front of some health-related state government building provided a lovely opportunity.

Down the way we were amused to find that this lucky chair had been named "Chair of the Month." I wonder what fine behavior earned it that honor?

Reaching the waterfront was an exciting moment for inlanders like us. It never fails to thrill me when I can get back to a place where there is a goodly body of ocean water.  It's like an old friend for this island girl.

As you can see from the map, though, we were nowhere near oceanfront. Note the "You are here" red dot, way down at the bottom of the Puget Sound.

Statues aren't the only inanimate objects with which we interact. Husband couldn't resist doing the Samson act when we reached this pier.  Somewhere under those layers are muscles...big, impressive ones, of course!

I was delighted to look down off the end of the pier and see jellies plying the waters.  It's not easy to get a picture of these ephemeral creatures. Photo editing software helps them show up more clearly.

 By this point in our walk Husband was feeling very cold. I was feeling playful. The two states of mind don't always mix happily. Check out the facial expressions.

There were huge long strings of geese flying over. And yes, unlike some of the silly groups we see on the east side of the state, these were actually headed south!

Headed back toward the downtown, we found these two happy beings near the farmer's market. We couldn't resist doubling the number of happy beings.

Living in a rural area, we tend to forget about some of the "oddities" one sees in a more urban environment. ("Oddities," of course, just refers to something not typically seen. Not meant to be pejorative.) As best as we could tell, this one was an impressive wall mural celebrating the work done by labor unions and other similar advocacy organizations.

You know those stations in touristy stores where you find key chains, mugs, and suchlike with people's names on them?  Well, I can never find mine. I don't have a Ginger mug, Ginger keychain, or Ginger anything. So it was kind of fun, as a tourist, to find that Olympia has a Ginger Street. How magnanimous of them.

While this town didn't serve up a lot of good weather over the weekend--it was raining by the time we arrived back at the apartment from our long walk--there were a lot of beautiful fall colors to be seen, and interesting architecture.  I'm quite fond of big stone buildings such as this one on their main street, which is called "Capitol Street."

And my final shot: a lovely, colorful Japanese maple a few doors down from where we stayed.  A crisp autumn day is an incomparable treat.  But a soggy autumn day isn't too bad if you have some lovely colors.