Sunday, July 27, 2008

Anne's Garden

When my sister-in-law, Anne, isn't delivering babies or doing surgery, she's tending the wonderful garden surrounding her home on the west side of the Cascade mountains. It's been rather rainy since we arrived, but that's exactly what makes it so beautiful and green here, and the flowers lush and brilliant. Here are are the happy faces of some flowers I met while walking around the yard yesterday. Enjoy!





Saturday, July 26, 2008

Prime-arily Creative

Stepdaughter #1's artistic toenailsWe're at a family reunion near Snohomish, Washington this weekend. I was chatting with husband, Stepdaughter #1 and Son-in-law when I noticed her toenails. Cool!

Stepdaughter #2 did them, SD#1 explained. SD#2, who is very artistic, used a toothpick to put the white dots on the purple background. And there are a prime number of dots on each toenail, SD#1 observed. SD#2, who is a neonatal ICU nurse in a large hospital in southern California, is quite taken with prime numbers.

"Really?!" I exclaimed, quite impressed. "Why prime numbers?"

"She's always liked them" SD#1 explained. When she puts food in the microwave to heat it up, she programs in a prime number of seconds for the heating time. And when she flips her hair downwards to add volume to it, she always shakes it up and down a prime number of times.

"How very odd," Husband said, hearing of it.

I laughed. "Well, they're all odd except for the number 2," I said.

"But the fact that there is only one even prime number is also odd," he said.

He got me with that one!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Marriage Principles

A little more than seven years ago, Husband was preparing to marry me. The teachers at the school where he's a principal thought he needed some marriage advice, so they rallied the students to write advice for their principal.

Just in case you'd forgotten what goes into a good marriage, I thought you might benefit from a refresher course.

Never buy your wife real flowers. Buy the plastic ones. For two reasons: one, they don't die. And two: they're cheap.
--Darrel J., Grade 6

How to Get Out of the House: Say you are going to take out the garbage, then get in your car and drive as fast as you can. P.S. Am I bad or what
--Jordan V., Grade 6

Dear Mr. W, I hope your marriage will be a good one. Just don't get a divorce. Don't Yell when you may loose your temper. Always love God and help your wife when she needs it.
--Kiersten, Grade 6

Don't Get a tv or get rid of yours, the Television can ruin a relationship. especialy if you have kids. Have a nice Wedding.
--Jeffrey S., Grade 6

Please make shure you LOVE the person. Devors is a tarble thang. It really hurts Children also arguing in front of your childorn hopfuly you wont argu talk it out. Your frind in Jesus.
--Annonamous, Grade 6

Always buy her cool things, and tell her you love her all the time. Don't EVER Kiss alot in public (that's really yucky) Well have a good marriage!
--Kandice, Gr. 6

Use mouthwash. Don't sing if you can't. Do the dishes. Have pets. Pamper her with gifts. Treat her like #1. Don't make dinner if you can't cook. Don't have kids. Say you love her every day. Say she's beautiful. Make up cute nicknames like "cutie bug." Stay married and accept her friends.
--Callie H., Grade 6

Dear Mr. W, Your wife is really lucky to be getting married to you. You should always try to get your wife to try surfing. And also try to get your wife to tell you what she likes to do. And what she likes to do. You should try to mix those things together.
--Trevor C., Grade 5

Flowers work well when you want her to forgive you! P.S. Chocolate works too!
--Adam N. , Grade 5Be as good as you are when I am in the principals office with you. Make your honeymoon a fun won. Make it Long, and good. Make it a big wedding. Take the day off when she sick.
--Brandon K, Grade 4

Here is some advice when you get married, give your wife lots of candy. And kill all the spiders in your house.
--Alex S. Grade 3

I suggest that you take your wife to the A&W. I have tried their root beer floats, and they were superb. And you should also take her to the Big Twist. Their pretzel dogs, and frozen lemonade are also superb. As you know, the mall is a great place to be. Have fun.
--Spenser S. Grade 3

Try not to get in fites. Make sure that you Get her surprises. I know she will Like that. trust me I am a girl I know these things.
--Casandra K. Grade 4

I think it would be nice not to burp at the dinner table, not to wear mismatching socks. And always mow the lawn on Friday. And don't forget to do the dishes!!! And go on a really long honeymoon to Hawaii.
--Miles-Erik B., Grade 4

Never give her "the face." Oh and give her some flowers.
--Bryson, Grade 4

I appreciate you being my principal. I hope your marrage is full of surprizes and happiness. Make sure there is cake. Maybe you can rent a lemmo.
--Luke M., Grade 3

Don't catch the garter.
--Ian F., Grade 5

Don't open your mouth when people throw bird seed @ you!
--Adam N., Grade 5

Don't buy your wife coffee. She will be bouncing off the walls.
--Timmy R, Grade 5

Never let your wife barrow your razor because their always be dull when you get them back. P.S. If you ever do.
--Jason U. Grade 5

I have not quite experienced what you have, but here is what I think. On your wedding day you should not freak out and get scared. You should have fun. Also, you probably would want to respect each other. Like if she wants to go somewhere you could go there instead of what you planned.
--Julianne W., Grade 5

Be sure your feonsay is the one that you want to be with for the rest of your life.
--Olivia, Grade 5

Saturday, July 19, 2008

The Parable of the Pioneers

A lot of Americans, I'll bet, dream about pioneering. It's in the stories of our history, in the values we try to pass on to our children, in our national lifeblood. "Be the first" might be a strong contender for national motto, not meaning that we need to get in line before others. It's just that we're just an inventive bunch of people with lots of ideas and curiosity and creativity. Other nations might make it better once we've dreamed up the idea, or they might make it more cheaply, but Americans continue to do a lot of initial dreaming. And pushing into the unknown.

It's interesting to ponder the covered wagons, then, in this part of the country. They are symbols of that pioneering spirit. I never cease to be amazed at all the things that got packed into one of these "ships" that crossed the prairies. And the people were just as sturdy as the vehicles, walking miles and miles, day after day. With all the miles I'm walking these days, it certainly brings home to me the distance covered, the aching feet, the heat and glare of the sun, and the pull of tired muscles.

How did they do it? How did they survive the unending difficulties, pains, and perils? How did they put up with each other, day after day, with no chance to get away and catch their breath when someone else in the party was making them crazy? I especially wonder about how the women and the children did it.

I think it was that dream, that promise of the accomplishment, the new and bountiful land that lay ahead. And it was the fact that they made the journey together as groups, focused on the same goal, and knowing they would only survive if they stuck together and supported one another, showing a united front to all that might threaten them.

Many lessons await us in the parable of the pioneers.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Freezer Jamming

I used to teach a graduate education class in which we looked into learning theories and the ways in which the mind works and remembers. One of the videos we looked at in that class addressed the issue of aging and memory. The visuals still play vividly in my mind: an old man and his wife go on a picnic in a place that looks like Huntington Gardens, near Los Angeles. They sit down at a picnic table and she cuts up some kind of fruit that they've never tasted before. He tastes it and comments favorably.

The video narrator says research shows that our minds stay sharper when we're learning something new every day, preferably experiencing something new. Go to a new place, they said, or taste a new fruit, or do an unusual activity. Vary your schedule.

Although my brain isn't aged (yet), I enjoy putting that concept to work where and when I can. Summer provides an educator the opportunity to get more serious about trying new things. So today, for the first time ever, I made freezer jam.

The event of my freezer jamming foray is all the more impressive when you consider that I have little natural talent for being a kitchen goddess. I make a mighty good rice and curry meal, and a few other basic dishes I've picked up here and there. But my repertoire is limited and the few favorites get repeated, especially because they taste good (need I mention open face tomato sandwiches?)

The first time I remember freezer jam, although I'd probably had it before, was eating it on toast in my Auntie Susie's kitchen in Maryland. She makes the most delicious apricot freezer jam, and I always said I'd learn how to do it. Since she lives on the other side of the country, she's too far away for me to wheedle a precious jar of it out of her now and then. Auntie said it's easy to make freezer jam, and wouldn't you know it? She was right! They now have a kind of fruit pectin that you don't even have to cook!

As these pictures demonstrate, I like my jam chunky. Maybe a little too chunky; we'll see. For now we will call this first adventure in freezer jamming a solid success. The flavor is lacking nothing. The texture looks good. My freezer jams were even attractive enough for Moca (the feline formerly known as anorexic) to drop by and sniff about. Now the most delicious thought is this: What shall be my foray into the novel and unknown for tomorrow?

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

I'm Pleased to Present...

...the first tomato of the summer from my garden!

You must understand what a triumph this is. My very first attempt at gardening took place when I was about 4 years old in Thailand. As I recall, it was rats that tunneled under and ate the sweet potatoes my brother and I planted under the careful tutelage of Mama. I still remember my keen disappointment when we found out what had happened.

Subsequent attempts at vegetable gardening have not gone so well. And quite frankly, my current garden, a tomato-only affair, is in sore need of weeding.

But recent days have dished up hot, perfect weather for the tomatoes. And early this morning, as we were heading out for our walk, I peered at my garden and hollered to Husband, "I see RED!!!"

There is nothing more mouth-wateringly delicious in this whole world than an open face tomato sandwich, which is just what I had for breakfast. Husband thought it was a bit warped of me to photograph my first tomato of the season and then slaughter it for the sandwich. But me? I enjoyed every bite of it.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

On Our Seventh

Seven years ago today. It seems like yesterday, and it seems like a lifetime or two ago. We're older, greyer, heavier, more battle-scarred from work, have traveled the U.S., Europe and Asia together, and have added sons-in-law and grandkids to the family ... all in seven years.

To celebrate, we rode our bikes out to a park five miles away with a picnic supper packed into our panniers. There was not another soul there; the visitors' center had closed for the day. We sat near the pond in the evening sunlight and ate sandwiches and Italian spiced cashews, brushed the ants off our legs and listened to the bullfrogs croak from time to time.

Husband had sent a bouquet for my office earlier in the day: pink roses and purple statice and orchids. Now, at the park, he produced a card with a handwritten message to warm my heart (Awwww!), and a Nike Plus iPod to enhance all the walking I'm doing. Wow! I had no clue this scheme was underway.

I was thinking about the significance of this day during my devotional time this morning. That's what anniversaries are for, I think: to stop and remember, to take stock, and to be thankful through and through for God's gifts to us. This--our marriage, our companionship, our increasing ability to read one another's thoughts and feelings, our way of rubbing some rough edges off each other, and our frequent shared laughter--is the very best gift I've ever gotten in my whole life.

I won't ever take it for granted.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Summer Wheat

Taken on my walk this morning (15.6 miles; I'm beat!). Click on photo for a more pleasing view.
I've been watching the wheat turn golden,
and then even blond,
and I've wondered: how does the farmer know when to harvest?
It looks tinder-dry.
It looks like they could grind it
into flour for some mother's fragrant homemade bread,
hot and steamy out of the oven,
freshly sliced with butter melting into it.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Independence Day Fireworks

Photo of Napa Valley fireworks found here
It was seven years ago, that night that we went to see the fireworks in the Napa Valley. We would be getting married in four days, and pretty much everything was in place. There would still be the trip to the registry in Napa, and from there to San Francisco for the rest of the day so we and the kids could savor sundaes at Ghirardelli Square. And there would still be time for going to church, an afternoon walk in the woods, a picnic rehearsal supper, and the wedding rehearsal itself. Family was descending from all directions, and the air was singing with anticipation.

But first, there was Independence Day to celebrate, and the watching of the fireworks at the VA Home in the valley. Rather ironic, isn't it, that we were celebrating the surrender of some of our personal independence by watching Independence Day fireworks? Go figure. It worked for us, and still does.

We set out our blankets on the grass by the long line of trees along the road and settled in to await dusk and the show. Families flowed around us, kids sporting their newly purchased glow-in-the-dark bracelets and necklaces.

I don't remember much else. I held his hand, and then snuggled up next to him, and thought about how my life was about to change in ways expected and unexpected. And I felt happy right down into my bones.